Calming the mind

Calming the mind

Calming the mind


Are you feeling overwhelmed with anxiety? I can assure you that you are not alone.

Sadly, anxiety is one of the most common mental health issues and affects millions of people worldwide. I am passionate about helping people break free from their sufferings and live a liberating lifestyle. In this blog post, I will share five effective anxiety tips that are backed by science and can help you calm your mind and reduce stress. Has this got your attention? Are you silently suffering?



What is anxiety


Anxiety is a complex and often overwhelming emotion that can impact every aspect of our lives. In order to effectively treat anxiety, it’s important to have a clear understanding of what anxiety is. Anxiety is a normal response to stress, but for some people, it becomes a chronic condition that interferes with their daily functioning.

At its core, anxiety is a fear-based emotion that triggers a variety of physical and psychological symptoms. It is characterized by excessive worry, fear, and unease, often accompanied by physical sensations such as a racing heart, rapid breathing, and muscle tension. Anxiety can be triggered by a specific event or situation, or it can be a constant presence in our lives.

It's important to remember that anxiety is not a sign of weakness or something to be ashamed of. It is a legitimate and common mental health issue that affects millions of people worldwide. Understanding anxiety allows us to have compassion for ourselves and others who are struggling with it.

By understanding the underlying causes and triggers of anxiety, we can start to develop strategies to manage and reduce its impact on our lives. In the following sections, I will explore effective techniques that have been scientifically proven to help alleviate anxiety. Remember, you are not alone in your struggle, and there is hope for managing and overcoming anxiety.


The science of breathing techniques


When it comes to managing anxiety, breathing techniques are often overlooked. However, the science behind these techniques is compelling and shows just how powerful they can be in calming the mind and reducing stress.

Research has shown that deep breathing exercises can activate the body's relaxation response, which counteracts the effects of anxiety. When we are anxious, our breathing tends to become shallow and rapid, contributing to feelings of panic and unease. By consciously focusing on our breath and taking slow, deep breaths, we can activate the body's relaxation response and shift our nervous system into a state of calm.

One effective breathing technique is diaphragmatic breathing, also known as belly breathing. This technique involves taking slow, deep breaths that fully engage the diaphragm. By breathing deeply into the belly rather than shallowly into the chest, we can increase the supply of oxygen to our brain and body, promoting a sense of calm and relaxation.

Another beneficial technique is box breathing. This technique involves inhaling for a count of four, holding the breath for a count of four, exhaling for a count of four, and then holding the breath out for a count of four. The pattern of equal counts helps to regulate our breathing and activate the relaxation response.

By incorporating these breathing techniques into our daily routine, we can effectively manage our anxiety and experience a greater sense of peace and well-being. So, the next time you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, take a moment to focus on your breath. You may be surprised at just how much it can help calm your mind and reduce stress.


Coping mechanisms to reduce anxiety


Coping with anxiety can be a challenging task, but there are effective coping mechanisms that can help reduce its impact on your life. In this section, I will explore some practical strategies that you can implement to manage your anxiety and regain a sense of control.

One powerful coping mechanism is creating a daily routine. Establishing a structured routine can provide a sense of stability and predictability, which can be comforting for those experiencing anxiety. By planning your day and sticking to a schedule, you can create a sense of order and reduce the likelihood of feeling overwhelmed.I also understand how difficult this can be for some people. I have Attention Deficit Disorder ADHD which often makes it hard for me to create a routine, however, baby steps can be just as important for some as a whole structure.

Another effective coping mechanism is seeking support from loved ones. Sharing your feelings and concerns with someone you trust can provide a sense of relief and validation. It's important to surround yourself with a supportive network of friends and family who can offer understanding and encouragement during times of anxiety.

Engaging in regular physical activity is also a great coping mechanism for anxiety. Exercise has been shown to release endorphins, which are natural mood boosters. Whether it's going for a walk, practicing yoga, or engaging in a high-intensity workout, finding an activity that you enjoy can help reduce anxiety symptoms and improve overall well-being.

Journaling can be another helpful coping mechanism for anxiety. Writing down your thoughts and feelings can provide a sense of release and clarity. It can also help you identify patterns or triggers for your anxiety, which can be useful in developing effective strategies for managing it.

Finally, practicing relaxation techniques such as progressive muscle relaxation or guided imagery can help calm your mind and reduce anxiety. These techniques involve systematically tensing and relaxing different muscle groups or visualizing calming and peaceful scenes. By incorporating these techniques into your daily routine, you can train your body and mind to relax and let go of anxious thoughts.

Remember, coping with anxiety is a journey, and what works for one person may not work for another. It's important to find coping mechanisms that resonate with you and to be patient with yourself as you navigate through your anxiety. With time and practice, you can find effective strategies to manage your anxiety and regain a sense of peace and well-being.


Embracing mindfulness and meditation


In our fast-paced and demanding world, finding moments of stillness and peace can feel like an impossible task. However, embracing mindfulness and meditation can be incredibly beneficial for managing anxiety. Mindfulness is the practice of being fully present and engaged in the present moment, without judgment or attachment to thoughts or feelings. It involves tuning into your body, senses, and surroundings, allowing you to become more aware of the present moment and less focused on anxious thoughts about the past or future.

Meditation, on the other hand, is a formal practice that involves sitting or lying down in a quiet space and intentionally directing your attention to a specific focus, such as your breath or a mantra. The goal is to cultivate a state of deep relaxation and awareness.

Both mindfulness and meditation have been shown to have numerous benefits for anxiety, including reducing stress, improving focus, increasing self-awareness, and promoting a sense of calm and well-being. Regular practice can help you become more attuned to your body and mind, allowing you to recognize and manage anxiety triggers more effectively.

To start embracing mindfulness and meditation, set aside a few minutes each day to practice. Find a quiet space where you can sit comfortably and focus your attention on your breath. Notice the sensation of each inhale and exhale, and gently bring your mind back to your breath whenever it wanders. Over time, you can gradually increase the duration of your practice.

Additionally, you can incorporate mindfulness into your daily activities. Pay attention to the sensations of washing your hands, eating a meal, or taking a walk. Engage all your senses and bring your full attention to the present moment.

Remember, mindfulness and meditation are skills that require practice and patience. It's natural for your mind to wander, and it's okay. The key is to gently bring your focus back to the present moment without judgment. With time and consistency, you will find that mindfulness and meditation can become powerful tools for managing anxiety and cultivating a sense of peace and well-being in your life.


I hope you found this blog useful. Remember, you are not anxiety, it is a common mental illness and by using some of these proven techniques, you can reduce and even eliminate anxiety. Please get in touch if you feel that any of my holistic services appeal to you. 


Love Bex 


Posted on 6th August 2023

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